What is one thing that comes so clearly to you it feels almost like it happened yesterday? For me that question is easy. For me it is the first good-bye, the first real good-bye I had ever heard. The kind that tells you there won’t be a hello. Good-byes like that have been too common in my life. It got to a point where I started avoiding hellos. It was all because of that first good-bye. The one that broke my heart.Every good-bye after was just a painful reminder. My heart healed over time, but not even time can heal a scar left by love. I tried to forget. I wasn’t successful. So I forgave.